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The Vision Thing - Part 2

The Vision Thing – Part 2: From God, Aligned Words and Actions

Vision. You may want to ask, “Is it really Biblical? It seems a bit forced. It’s a business principle projected onto the church.” I could see where one might say that. But let’s look again at vision from the “preferred future” definition.

What was and is God’s preferred future? I would contend that it begins after the fall with God’s words to the serpent in Genesis 3:14-15. God desires to crush the head of the serpent through the offspring of the woman and redeem the world. Didn’t God repeat that “vision” throughout the Old Testament that there would be a Savior who would save the world? It was even extended to the gentiles repeatedly in the Old Testament. Jesus reminded His hearers of this in Luke 4 in Nazareth when he referenced Elijah and the widow of Zarephath and then Elisha with Naaman the Syrian. The “Missio Dei” was for God to redeem mankind through the sending of His Son. Then as it came to fulfillment in Jesus Christ, the New Testament continued this preferred future of redemption through the great commission from Matthew 28. It sure seems like God’s vision is for us to join Him in the Missio Dei.

The often quoted “where there is no vision, the people perish” from Proverbs 29, while probably not a direct argument for congregational vision statements does in fact support the desire of God to save the world. In this verse the word “vision” can also be translated, “revelation” and thus makes the point that without a revelation - of the savior, of the Gospel of grace in Jesus Christ, the people will indeed perish for eternity!

So what is your vision for ministry? Is it in alignment with God’s who desires “all to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth” (1 Tim 2:4)? You may quickly say that it does. Look again. What do you hear with your ears and what do you see with your eyes? What is the evidence?

Many churches evidence an internal focus that seeks to serve the saved. A pastor’s time can be tracked and when honestly reviewed, little is admittedly directed toward those who do not yet know Jesus. Churches begin to shrink and the natural tendency is to circle the wagons and preserve what we’ve got. Internal scuffles divert our attention to calming the strife and appeasing the saved. One can point to the preaching and teaching and administering the sacraments. One can point to events where one has been responsive to those who come to you with needs and inquiries about Christ. Yet in all honesty this is merely good pastoral practice, it is not externally focused ministry that is intentionally, in word and deed by the pastor and the congregation actively working to “seek and to save the lost” as Jesus did (Luke 19:10).

Coaching Questions:

What is your default vision?

Is your vision in alignment with God’s desire to redeem the world in Christ?

What is the evidence that you are or are not in alignment?

What will you change? When? How? What will get in the way? How will you respond? What does accountability look like for you?

The Vision Thing

Over the last few months I have talked at length with a few pastors who have lamented that they know setting a vision for their ministry is important. They understand that vision is a powerful thing and that they have a serious responsibility for leading with vision. They are feeling the weight of being the chief vision bearer for the congregation, but they were discouraged because they didn’t think they really understood what vision was and didn’t know how to present it and reinforce it.

My response? “I think you probably know a lot more about vision than you think you do.” “Really?” they said. “Yes.” Then I asked, “What is that one thing in the back of your mind that seems to come out when you preach or have conversations with people? What is that one thing you are always stressing and repeating with your people?”

“Oh, now I get it.” Then they would say things like, “I’ve been telling my people we really need to be caring for one another more, forgiving one another, recruiting others, welcoming visitors, etc.” These are the things that the pastor thinks are most important to stress at that time. That becomes the de facto vision. It may be short term but it is the one thing that is on the pastor’s heart. It comes out in what he says to others in various venues: sermons, Bible studies, casual conversation and various church meetings.

Does that mean we’re done? No. A de facto vision is short term. It is not necessarily the shared vision. Vision needs to be longer term, shared, and among other things it is a preferred future that shapes what you do and who you are. It is Biblical, it is God sized. It inspires and it enables your ministry to say with conviction “yes” and “no” to various things. So where are you with the vision thing?

Coaching Questions:

What is your de facto vision for ministry?

What is that one thing that is on your heart and mind that seems to come out as a priority?

Where did that one thing come from?

Is that what God wants your vision for ministry to be?

The Vision thing – part two next time.

Empowerment Part 12: Reinforcing Empowerment & Vision

If your goal is to pursue a cultural shift from an internally focussed, self-fulfilling, self-seeking, consumer driven ministry to an externally focussed, servant hearted, God purposed ministry, then how do you cement it within the culture of the congregation?

You can talk about it. That often looks like sermons and is often the only thing that is done by some. Or you can talk about it and model it yourself as the leader/pastor. Or you can talk about it, model it, and take someone with you. Or further still you can talk about it, model it, take someone with you and enable opportunities for others to live it out.

But then what? Complete the loop by lifting up what is done by recognizing those actions in very public ways. Praise God for it in worship through prayers, sermon illustrations, first person testimonies, videos of the events and actions and even go one step further through intentionally recognizing what is done. The idea is not necessarily to praise the person but the behavior that is empowered by Christ. Make an intentional effort to look for it, identify it, point to it and say, “that’s what we’re after! That’s our vision in action! Thank you who all who have done this as a witness for us and a service to your neighbor! You guys did a great job of blessing people with opportunities to use their gifts in service to others. We praise God for you! Yeah God!”

 

In short it is a celebration of what God is doing in your midst and reinforces its importance of the vision of where your congregation is going. Affirmation is a powerful tool that God speaks of often in the scriptures (Matt 24:21, 23 & others).

Guiding principles:

•  Start with your vision/mission/values in deciding what kind of behavior/servant leadership you want to reward and reinforce.
• Gather a management committee to contribute to the design or the rewards/recognition, gather names for nominations and publicize the event(s).
• Design follow up activities to further reinforce and communicate what you value at your church.
• Design your presentation carefully to honor God who gives the gifts while affirming the sacrificial modeling of service displayed by the recipients.
• Recognition can take many forms from pats on the back to thank you notes to annual recognition awards and many more.

Coaching Questions:

• What behavior(s) do you want to reward (recognize/ highlight/lift up)?
• How is that behavior(s) in alignment with your vision?
• How will you recognize it (lift it up) as a model for the behavior of others? 
• How can this recognition be repeated?
• Is there a tangible symbol of that behavior(s)? (A pen, a paperweight, a framed picture, a trophy, other object that symbolizes the desired behavior, etc) that can be given away regularly in recognition of the behavior?
• How can you involve others in a process for defining, identifying and recognizing those who model that behavior(s)?
• What about you? How are you intentionally modeling that behavior which is in alignment with the vision?
• How are you sharing the story or showing others what you are doing (which demonstrates its priority and importance)?
• What is your next step?

Empowerment Part 11: What does this look like?

How do you see things?
What does it look like?
What is your perspective?

On our way home from church this past Sunday my wife Maria and I were talking about the normal things. She mentioned that she saw that a volunteer was wanted for organizing the Operation Christmas Child shoebox project. If you are not familiar, this is where individuals pack a shoebox for a boy or girl at an identified age along with perhaps a donation and send it to a location where it is distributed to a child in need. It is a great activity.

Maria said she was busy and didn’t have much time to make phone calls, packing and transporting the boxes and organizing the whole thing. I then started thinking out loud. “Well, you don’t have to make the phone calls, transport the boxes and do the whole thing.” Really?

Well, what does that look like? Many people seem a bit sheepish to step up because they assume that if they agree to take on a project and lead it then basically they have to do it, of course with some help from others, but they had better be willing to make it all happen and do it all yourself if necessary. True? To a point, but only to a point. There is another way.

I then described a scenario for her. I said, “It seems to me that people are reluctant to step up and lead because they assume they have to do it all or come close to that. What if you agreed to lead it but you saw your job was to recruit others who saw their jobs as recruiting others? Furthermore what if your first calls were to those who were not active in any other ministries so the same 20 people were not being asked - yet again - to make something happen? Probably the inactives would be more open to the call because they would be asked to help make a difference for someone else (the children) rather than being called to come back to worship or give to the stewardship drive. In this way you could get new people involved, they would feel valued and making a difference and would probably come back to worship as a result. You could convene a few meetings with the willing after church and define the job of the steering committee not to do the job but to recruit others to do the job. Make sure you announce activities and steps along the progress of the Operation Christmas Child project well ahead of time: in the bulletin, on the website, in the newsletter, through phone calls, so people can have plenty of opportunity for people to hear, have time to be ready, clear their calendar, get excited, share the excitement and get involved. So you wouldn’t have to do everything but just see your job as the main recruiter of the recruiters, check progress and coach others to action and make sure the appropriate things happen along the way.”

We kept talking. She said hadn’t even thought of it that way. It sounded much more of a realistic possibility. Then the car hit the garage and the subject changed. We’ll keep talking.

Doesn’t that compare and contrast the approach and emotional response of how people to get involved? I think it is a night and day difference. One feels burdensome and the other lighter and affirming of others who are often overlooked. Who knows what will happen with this project but I’ve seen it work wonderfully well in the past. Why not again, and again, and again?

What does it look like for you?

Coaching Questions:

• How does this change your approach to recruit someone to lead something?
• How does the lead person make a huge impact on how things get done in the parish and who does it? 
• What is the long term affect of modeling getting things done in a particular way?
• What do you need to get done?
• How will it get done?
• By whom? With who else? Who should be invited? How? By whom?
• What will your role be in casting a vision for how it can happen differently while unleashing the power of more people?

Let me know how this works for you and what it looks like in your context.

Empowerment Part 10 Empowerment and Self Esteem

He got me. I was hooked.

Many years ago my wife and I were shopping for a private school for my son who has Asperger’s syndrome. This was before anyone had ever heard of how Autism was increasing let alone any school system addressing those concerns for this growing population of students. The headmaster who was from South Africa said, “we hire teachers who have healthy self-esteems so they don’t have to build their self-esteem off of the students.” Wow. What an unspoken but very real phenomenon. Some need the esteem building relationship of students to help them feel good about themselves while others already are confident and self assured and are thus free to simply teach and serve the need of the students. So whose needs are being met? In the former, the teacher’s needs, in the latter, the students. Which kind of teacher would you want for your child? No question about it. We want someone who is so selfless that they get lost in serving the needs of the students. He got me. I was hooked. We went with that school.

In your ministry, whose needs are being met? Are you serving the people and their growth and maturity in faith and leadership or are you serving yourself? Not so fast. Think about it for a minute. In what way and to what degree may you be working for the affirmation of others? Do you crave the spotlight of people’s attention and adulation? How much? How often do you get upset with the quality of outcomes because you are afraid of how it will reflect upon you? How easily do you forget about the quality of other’s growth, the quality of the ministry toward others, and the resulting praise of God (see Matt 5:16 and others)! How self-aware are you as you go about your life and ministry? How you answer those questions will say volumes about your capacity for empowering others.

As Christians we have the unconditional love of God in Jesus Christ. We know the verse by heart: “For God so love the world (you!)…that He gave His only Son…” John 3:16. Now if the God of the universe says He loves you intimately, completely and unconditionally, then why do you still feel (in ways small and large) that you need to justify yourself through your works, through the outcomes and productivity you create and use that to make yourself feel worthwhile? Or put another way, since God’s love is so complete for you, is there any reason left to so desire the praise of other people that you hoard those opportunities for ministry? Is there any reason you should keep that for yourself and not work to “give away the ministry” (empowerment) for the edification and growth of others and the benefit of the kingdom? Who do we think we are or what do we think we need that we resist empowering others? Taken to the extreme, have we ever been guilty of taking undue credit that was really done through a group or even a single person? We've seen others do it. Are we guilty? What's all this about?

It may be some scar from our past. It may be some quirk in our personality, some dark corner that needs the light of Christ to shine upon it. But that doesn’t mean we should put up with it and allow it to continue. Chances are there aren't a lot of people standing in line to set you straight. So we have to learn to be brutally honest with ourselves and rediscover the beauty and sweetness of the Gospel in our own lives.

A great little book to
think about the value of
Christ Esteem

In this way, empowerment is not based upon self-esteem as my headmaster friend spoke about. It really has everything to do with “Christ-esteem” or finding your value in Christ and His love for you. In this way you don’t have to build your esteem off of your ministry, your people or anything else.

Coaching Questions:

• What makes you feel valued? God’s love in Christ or something else? To what degree do those other things “hook” you?
• What unconsciously directs your choices and motivations? Your need for the approval of others? Your love of others and wanting to see them grow and develop? Other? See Galatians 1:10.
• What ministry can you “give away” to the joy and surprises of those whom God has potentially gifted for that ministry?
• What will you do and when will you do it?

Empowerment Part 9 Real Life Empowerment Dialogue

 What do you do when someone comes to you with a question?

What is your immediate instinct? To answer the question of course!

Why? Many reasons I suppose. First you may know the answer. Second you don’t want to be disturbed and so with a quick reply you can be rid of them. Third, you may feel like you are supposed to have the answer, what with all the seminary training and all. Fourth, you may want that “stroke” of having given a good answer and the satisfaction of how someone came to you (instead of someone else). Fifth, you may answer because you want them to do it “your way” and not get sidetracked with their “hair-brained solution” or someone else’s idea. (After all you’ve got all the right answers, right?)

But did you ever look at these simple interactions as something much more than a mere question and an answer?

That’s right. On its face, it seems like just a simple question and an answer that are needed. But people often have other things in mind when they interrupt us and ask a question. Perhaps they have something else in mind and the question is a mere icebreaker to the more important issue. This will require your sensitivity and perhaps your managing your time well so as to discern the real agenda and suggest an appropriate time if that is not it. You may want to ask, "is there anything else?" as an invitation to go deeper.

The most common situation though is that they are honestly stuck and need some help. What then? What is the best way to help them? Fire out the answer for all the reasons listed above? (We must admit that few are “good, right and salutary"!) What other options do you have?

How about answering a question with a question? If they are stuck then wouldn’t the best way to help them be through facilitating their thinking through the answer? After all, if you merely answer it for them, what will they do the next time they have a question? They’ll come to you! Won’t that feel good? Perhaps initially but doesn’t it create a dependence? Of course it does! And let's be honest and admit that the reasons above are not good reasons to simply answer the question.

How about some of these replies:

• What were you thinking would be a good solution?
• What would you do?
• What else? What other options are there?
• Who else could help you?
• What steps would it require?
• How does that align with our Mission and Vision and Values?

Now don't those questions affirm the questioner? They may feel a bit put upon at first but along the way they will come to the conclusion that you believe in them, you are confident they have good ideas and they will probably get even more excited about new ideas and possibilities. That sounds like empowerment to me!

In real life dialogue for empowerment, the answer is often the question!

Now, how can you live into asking questions when people come to you for answers?

• Are you aware of what might get in the way of you answering with a question?
• What’s up with that? What do you get when you take someone’s responsibility from them?
• How will you be different going forward?
• What questions will you have at the ready for a thoughtful reply?
• How will you catch yourself so as to live into this new approach?
• How else will you affirm people when they think things through creatively?

Empowerment Part 8 Saying "No"

What will happen if you say "No"?

Ask yourself: What will happen if I don’t do it?

Yeah, people might get upset. Yeah, you might be targeted as failing to do your job. Yeah, it might be uncomfortable and it might even bother me. Sure I might feel like I’m not exhibiting a servant heart. Yeah, nobody else is doing it at the present time. But really, did you go through seminary, receive a call (with specific things named as your primary ministry on it) and go to a church, often with a specific title and job description/ministry description, to always make the coffee, empty the garbage, clean the kitchen, and so on?

Sure it is part of the job at times. When I first talked to my pastor about going to seminary to become a pastor I hung around with him for a day. We talked a lot, did some calls together and at the end of the day he went around and checked the locks, closed the windows and said, “Don’t get too idealistic. Ministry is filled with a lot of unglamorous tasks like this.” I got his point. I am not above doing anything including washing the rest rooms, turning off the AC and locking doors because I am often the last one out. But that can be taken to an extreme and it can spill over to a number of other things as well to the end that we might end up being the “default doer” of almost everything.

I remember the first time a layperson handed me a job and I said “no”. Something on the sound system didn’t work and he pulled the offending component and told me to go find and buy a replacement and extended his arm to me with it. I said simply said “no” and didn’t take it from him. At the time I probably couldn’t articulate why but as time went by it came down to good stewardship. Am I a good steward of what has been entrusted to me when I accept these things handed to me that are not really within my training, interest or in a direct relationship to my call? Of course, there are exceptions. I normally did check the doors on Sunday afternoon when I left after leading worship. I normally did turn on some lights, padlocked the gate and so on. But really, if I accept everything put upon me, I am shielding others from feeling the need to be needed and seeing how they can be used by God.

Remember what was said in an earlier blog (Empowering Leaders Part I) about how people enter into leadership? “People enter leadership when they see a problem and say, ‘someone should do something about that and I’m that someone.’” If we have such fragile egos that we feel like we have to make sure everything is taken care of or someone will be upset with me then no one will see any problems and step up. Furthermore we will never be in a position to recruit or encourage the appropriately gifted person to become involved. They won’t see the need in spite of what we say. Status quo will become quite familiar. The sheep will think “normal” is having someone do everything while they sit in the pew and receive. And we’ll live in denial that I am a good servant hearted shepherd caring for the sheep because they have no problems. NO! You are a part of the problem!

So what will happen if you don’t do it?

No you don’t want to ignore the safety and security issues. Lock the doors, check the HVAC system. Turn off the appliances as necessary and perhaps there are other necessities that good sense identifies you as the person to do it.

But really, ask yourself:

• How am I getting in the way of their involvement by doing it for them?
• How am I blocking them from seeing a need that they can fulfill by God’s grace?
• What am I afraid of if I continue to think that I need to do it?
• And…at what point does this assignment appeal to the old Adam within you that is inherently lazy?

Now make that list:

• What will you strategically and intentionally choose to stop doing?
• How will you leverage that to recruit, train, encourage and enlist others?
• How will you deal with the pushback from those who don’t like you messing with their homeostasis?
• How will this affect how you pray? (Are you praying about this? Why not? Oh, well, that is for another blog…)

Empowerment Part 7 The Goal is Not the Goal

1 Corinthians 12:27-30 “Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.  28 And in the church God has appointed first of all apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then workers of miracles, also those having gifts of healing, those able to help others, those with gifts of administration, and those speaking in different kinds of tongues.  29 Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles?  30 Do all have gifts of healing? Do all speak in tongues? Do all interpret?”

None of us as leaders have all the spiritual gifts necessary to do the work of the ministry alone or even with a few key people. The Lord has blessed people with various gifts of the Holy Spirit. If those gifts are not used and developed the body of Christ is crippled. Less people come to know Jesus.

Preliminary Conclusion: In our mission culture in America, most adults have not been discipled adequately through traditional methods. They do not understand the basics of Christianity let alone servanthood. Neither have been modeled very well. The body of Christ is severely crippled. When people are given baby steps into responsibilities that they see they can make a difference in it will be transformational for them.

Conclusion: We need to work to involve and invite people to witness and participate with those who also model maturity and what it means to be a disciple who serves.

Radical conclusion: if God is more interested in doing a work in us than through us - then all ministry activities and events become first an opportunity for people to be involved and grow in the use of their God given gifts and talents. The event will still occur and accomplish its regularly understood purpose.

Put another way: Ministry events are first and foremost vehicles and opportunities to involve and develop people and the ministry goal of the event will take care of itself (often in ways and degrees that we do not expect)

Put in a more radical way: Ministry events are dreamed up as an “excuse” to create positions of responsibilities and activities for the purpose of involving and developing people. Amazingly through this process goal of developing people first God will transform the people who are involved in the putting on of the event as well as those who are involved in the event itself.

Examples:

Sunday School – Stated Goal: educate Children in the Christian faith.

New primary goal: It is primarily a vehicle to educate and grow adults who will in turn influence children for Christ in Sunday school, home, community and beyond. As this new goal is pursued the stated goal in accomplished along the way.

Fellowship Event – Stated Goal: Develop community among people.

New Primary Goal: Involve as many people as possible in as many responsibilities as can be invented in order to give people ownership, involvement, and the opportunity to stretch and grow in new ways. Former stated goal is accomplished along the way. Yet when the new primary goal is pursued there is more participation and a greater likelihood of involvement in the future, good will, etc.

Other examples?

The Blessings: More of the body of Christ is mobilized for ministry. More rejoice in the wonder of being used by God to bless people. More are touched by the blessing of the ministry. More are discipled. There is a division of labor and less people are burnt out. There is more joy in ministry as people flourish in their God given abilities rather than struggle in ministries that are beyond their primary giftedness. More people come to Christ. More people are inspired to worship and receive the Word and Sacraments.

THOUGHTS AND ATTITUDES WHICH CHALLENGE US:

1. I can do it better, faster, myself.
2. They will make mistakes, forget, drop the ball, etc.
3. It takes too much work to invite, creatively involve, supervise others etc.
4.  If this event doesn’t go as well as I can do it myself then I will look bad (I want to get people’s strokes by doing a good job!)
5. But the real goal is the stated goal! Isn’t that taking your eye off the ball?

What do you lose with each of these? 

What do you really want?